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Belle Curve Stories's avatar

I think you're right about the stigma, but another thing you mentioned ... the gradual nature of the loss ... also contributes to the denial. My grandma was in the denial stage forever, calling me a mumbler. She never did get a hearing aid. Too vain. My MIL is convinced that we talk low in order to leave her out of conversations. She got a hearing aid, but refuses to use it. So very sad, not only because of the damage it does to relationships and quality of life, but also for the impact it has on cognitive abilities. Thank you for drawing attention to this issue. I hope I can recognize it when it happens to me.

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Sheryl Kraft's avatar

Oh, how sad! Your grandmother, your MIL...they are missing out on so much, so unnecessarily. Thank you for sharing your stories, and thank you for reading.

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Sheryl Kraft's avatar

Thanks for your comment, Cindy. Good to know it's on your list; good luck!

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Cindy La Ferle's avatar

Thanks for the reminder, Sheryl. All true! Seeing the audiologist is next on my list of spring appointments.

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